Lydia Fawcett works with MCC – BC in the area of Abuse and Bullying. She finds that churches are as prone to abuse and bullying as the general society. Her passion to help the vulnerable is evident in this interview.
Addressing abuse in small churches.
Churches must prioritize listening and learning to prevent abuse, regardless of denomination or beliefs. The importance of truth-telling in a church setting is key, with abuse defined as any behavior that causes harm or injury to another person, regardless of their faith background or socio-economic status.
Exploring power dynamics in abusive relationships, with a focus on emotional manipulation and gaslighting.
Women in the church experience emotional abuse through gaslighting and lack of agency in decision-making.
Communication, abuse, and self-awareness.
Fawcett emphasizes self-awareness for effective communication. She reflects on the historical roots of the societal crises related to abuse, tracing back centuries.
The importance of churches being safe spaces for healing and growth
Don’t be afraid to learn and listen deeply – find resources and be willing to grow.
Action Items for small churches
- Provide pamphlets and resources on abuse to congregants discreetly.
- Deliver sermons and offer training opportunities on recognizing and preventing abuse.
- Develop a group of people in the church with some knowledge on issues like abuse to be available to congregants.
- Pastors should not be afraid to learn about and address abuse issues openly.